How to Detach Yourself

It will happen time once or twice where you will develop really strong feelings for your summer fling thing. Scream, kick and fight all you want but there will be something magical about his seductive stare that will keep you captivated and you wont be able to release yourself from his grip. You will fall *yuck* in love with him.

Shame, shame on you fir not having a fling on a summer vacation where you have to leave and it will be easy to detach yourself from him.

I will guide you through the process of letting go, provided of course that you want to. Why would you want to let go? Here is the main reason - you already have a boyfriend and now it's time for summer to be over and for you to settle down with him. You want to shake the summer fling before your real boyfriend finds out because you really like the stability of the boyfriend but you want to release your sex buddy.

Another reason you want to let go is explained below, I'll summarize by saying that if start a relationship, you will ruin the magic of your summer fling. Sex and your butterflies will be out the window and not nearly as intense so I highly suggest you oull the plug now before you hit the 3 month markl. Read below:

Here are a few ways to manage it.

1.) Keep him as a sex buddy.
Good old booty call. Leave it at that. If he knows you have a boyfriend, this will be easy to convince him to remain a booty call only. Tell him to get girlfriend and fall in love with her for you two to keep your hot passionate sex. Make promises of erotic novelties and vibrators and erotic encounters outside or whatever you want. There is something extra sensual and super kinky about having a behind-the scenes sex buddy that is your human sex toy only.

2.) Tell him your boyfriend will hurt him if he finds out.
This one is really grasping at straws but if you tell him his, he may back off. Men don;t usually mind being used a s a sex device anyway so I'm sure you wont hurt his feelings. If you happen to have a summer fling sex with a sensitive man, this one won;t work because you don't want the poor guy to live in fear! I;All cover detaching from the sensitive man at a later date 0 stay tuned!

3.) Tell him you are going away to college.
He will forget about you so quickly. You know his favorite hang outs so make sure you stay away to avoid an embarrassing encounter, but if you do run in to each other, tell him you skipped class and came back to visit your family. He's not gong to ask for proof that you are in school so any lie you make up will be fine in this case.

4.) Tell him that you suffer from SAD.
SAD is seasonal affective disorder. Tell him hat you are a total bitch during the winter and you avoid men at all costs. He won't question this one at all, tryst me. So what if he thinks you're a loon, it's not like you;re dating the guy anyway!

5.)Tell him you are not interested in a relationship.
Among all the lies and excuses, have you considered the TRUTH? It is a great option. There is no worry about being a cheater, liar or being not a nice person. Tell him straight up that you only wanted a fling. Detach yourself and him at the same time. Think about the memories and keep it at that. Masturbate to the thought of each other and leave it at that.

The problem with keeping the relationship is that this wonderful"butterfly in the belly" moment will end, once the "honeymoon" is over, you two will start the "imperfect" phase where you fight as your personalities mesh. This is the whole reason you want to avoid a relationship in the first place - right! Keep this in mind.

Avoid the honeymoon ending. Like I just said, if you end upon staying together, you will ruin your sexy memories. Its no fun to masturbate to someone after you have had a fight. Keep it sexy, fun and new forever and let the relationship live perfectly in your memory. As soon as you hit the 3 month mark, you are in a relationship and that's usually the time that things fall apart. the fighting begins and you fall out of like a little bit. keep the special moments alive, keep the sex explosive and fun and don't ruin your summer fling by entering into a relationship that will only end anyway - yeesh!

Hopefully my tips will help to ditch your summer sex toy and yo can press the reset button. Why not invent a new thing for yourself, a winter fling! The sexy snow bunny on the ski hill. Now is not too early to lean how to ski - wait - yes, it's July and there is no snow on the ground. once it snows, Ill update the ways to have a winter fling Bye for now summer lovers!