The Obvious about Suceeding with the Fling

Nothing will wreck your summer fling more then getting pregnant. Ouch! I have actually known this to happen before so I feel kinda silly writing about it, but it's true. You gotta use protection okay??

Yes it's possible to contract some kind of sexually transmitted disease, call me naive, but I don't really worry about that because after a few treatments, most can be cured. I'm not stupid and know fully well that some can't be cured, but I don't really care too much about that - I am more concerned with getting pregnant. That is a big bad thing (at this point in my life anyway). Anyways...

For the squeamish, there is no excuse not to wear protection. In case you don't know already, you can buy condoms online. They say in cosmo girl magazines that if you are not grown-up enough to buy condoms then you are not grown up enough to have sex. gee I hate that idea! I am afraid of embarrassing myself and I am in no means a teen!

I buy my condoms online and you should too. It's sometimes cheaper then buying in a store but it makes sense since they have no overhead costs like a big storefront and lots of staff. So buy your condoms online.

I have another super fun idea, to make the fling really stand out, try getting a vibrator or a shiny and colorful pretty dildo or two. Another fun thing to share is a sex toy for couple like vibrating cock ring these simple sex toys are really fun, especially because you just slip it on him, turn it on and let it go!

Every strong and powerful women strong enough to have a summer sex fling then let go with no emotional attachment is perfect to use sex toys. What do I mean by that? It's extremely unlikely that you will be too squeamish to use sex toys. In fact, I almost guarantee that if you pull out some type of kinky adult sexual toy like a the famous g-spot vibrator and say "hey baby, use this on me" that by the end of the summer, it will be HIM that is so attached to you and you will have to shake him!

It's pretty easy to turn the tables, just use your sexuality and he will be under your spell! But don't for get to use condoms!!!

After being the hottest summer sex encounter you'll ever have, you might have to shake the guy, I will follow yo with an article on how to do this because to break a guy of the temptress spell and cast with extreme sexuality, it might take some work. So go ahead and be this sexy because you can!

Summer Flings - Success Tips for Women

How to get, enjoy and handle a summer fling has 2 sets of rules, one for women and one for men. In this article, I will point dome of the important tips for women.

1.) Do not appear desperate.
A desperate women is a women who need s a boyfriends. Even though this may not be the case for you, this is the message that you will convey. Desperation is such a big turn-off, not juts for dating but for the erotic fling too. Act a little aloof and play somewhat hard to get so that he does not get turned away by any advances or yourself entirely. Play it cool and it will come.

2.) Always smile.
A happy girl is a fun, happy go lucky woman who is receptive to new things. A serious girl is one looking for more commitment and to settle down. No man will want to have a fling with an insecure an unhappy girl, or a women who is too serious. Psychology 101 teaches you that a happy and smiling person is receptive to new meetings and happy encounters.

3.) Don't talk about past relationships.
As soon as you mention your exes, this cements "looking for relationship" all overly our forehead. never mention anything to do with relationship issues because if you do, then it is opening the book of relationships and seeing where the new man you met fits in.

A summer fling is supposed to be a superficial, erotic relationship, not a serious or committed relationship so by never speaking the world relationship, you can keep it superficial and maintain the "fling friendship" status all summer long.

4.) Be straight with them - carefully.
If you tell the guy right at that you are looking for a summer fling, he will see you only as a sex object. It's juts the way men work. So if you want to be seen a pure arm candy or a sex toy only, then go ahead and let him know that you want a fling with no strings attached. He will talk about you behind your back and you will get slightly a slutty reputation. This is okay if you are on vacation and want to play the role. You will never see these guys again sow who cares?

If this occurs on your city, avoid getting a bad reputation by not telling them outright that you are wanting free sex only. Just tell them that you are not looking for anything serious and this will keep the respect - and keep him wondering which is always fun. Mystery is lusted upon!

Following these simple tips can assure success in your summer fling, It will allow free no string sex without the tarnished image. It will also help to prevent any tarnished image and prevent him from being too attached when the time is over!