How to get, enjoy and handle a summer fling has 2 sets of rules, one for women and one for men. In this article, I will point dome of the important tips for women.
1.) Do not appear desperate.
A desperate women is a women who need s a boyfriends. Even though this may not be the case for you, this is the message that you will convey. Desperation is such a big turn-off, not juts for dating but for the erotic fling too. Act a little aloof and play somewhat hard to get so that he does not get turned away by any advances or yourself entirely. Play it cool and it will come.
2.) Always smile.
A happy girl is a fun, happy go lucky woman who is receptive to new things. A serious girl is one looking for more commitment and to settle down. No man will want to have a fling with an insecure an unhappy girl, or a women who is too serious. Psychology 101 teaches you that a happy and smiling person is receptive to new meetings and happy encounters.
3.) Don't talk about past relationships.
As soon as you mention your exes, this cements "looking for relationship" all overly our forehead. never mention anything to do with relationship issues because if you do, then it is opening the book of relationships and seeing where the new man you met fits in.
A summer fling is supposed to be a superficial, erotic relationship, not a serious or committed relationship so by never speaking the world relationship, you can keep it superficial and maintain the "fling friendship" status all summer long.
4.) Be straight with them - carefully.
If you tell the guy right at that you are looking for a summer fling, he will see you only as a sex object. It's juts the way men work. So if you want to be seen a pure arm candy or a sex toy only, then go ahead and let him know that you want a fling with no strings attached. He will talk about you behind your back and you will get slightly a slutty reputation. This is okay if you are on vacation and want to play the role. You will never see these guys again sow who cares?
If this occurs on your city, avoid getting a bad reputation by not telling them outright that you are wanting free sex only. Just tell them that you are not looking for anything serious and this will keep the respect - and keep him wondering which is always fun. Mystery is lusted upon!
Following these simple tips can assure success in your summer fling, It will allow free no string sex without the tarnished image. It will also help to prevent any tarnished image and prevent him from being too attached when the time is over!
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