Why Summer Flings?

If you have ever experienced a summer fling, you know what I mean. there is something so magical, so intoxicating abut having a summer fling. Even if you have sex or not, you just need to be intimate in some way. It can range from vigorous animal sex in strange places to holding hands and begging all googly-eyed like teenagers. Having a summer fling is so rejuvenating.

It is like pressing the "refresh" button on life, it's a vacation within a vacation. All you care about is the guy. You are so lost in each other's gaze, the butterflies flicker. It is so liberating because you know that it can never be serious. There will be no "imperfect" phase because you two will be long gone by the time the arguments begin.

If you are not the promiscuous type, that does not mean that you can't have a fling. Just don't be too provocative infornt of him. Dress conservatively and do not act slutty and he will understand what type of girl you are. Hold hands and be romantic, that's fine too.

By pretending to be newly in love is so fun because whatever your goals are and whatever his goals are, there is no worry about them colliding. People's goals are different and maybe he even lives somewhere else. Nothing matters about the future because rather is no future. Keep a certain level of detachment, this is similar to being a teenager. They don't care about all the future events, they live in the now.

With a summer fling, you live in the now too. None of this matters because at the end of the season, the fling is gone. This works best if you are on vacation because of it is someone is your hometown, then there is no summer fling, it will be too tempting to create a relationship. This is no a bad thing, but it makes the whole topic of this blog pointless. This is about summer flings, not relationships!

Read on to discover the liberating power that having a sexy fiddling can do to your life! Enjoy!