Look Your Best For That Fling!

While enjoying your hot summer fling, why not take this time to enjoy life, enjoy love, and enjoy being a girl! Don't be shy, be the sexiest woman you can be! Almost every women wants to look gorgeous and wants to look her hottest, and there is no better time to do it than while living out the summer with your fun summer fling!

Go out to the beach and rent a boat, or whatever you two want to do, are you going to wear just anything? Don't even consider it! Go out and pick up a new, sexy and stylish bikini that will flaunt your best assets! After all, your summer fling is only going to last so long, and so is your hot body! You can't wear your favorite, kinky outfits just anywhere, so why not wear them during your spring fling time!

When the night falls and its time to enjoy the hot summer nights with your boyfling, it is also time to look your best. Be a diva. Be an absolute queen! Spend a little extra cash on an incredibly sexy ensemble and you will get to strut around and dominate the land! Your sex will be hotter and wilder, and your ego will get the boost of a lifetime!

Not matter what you two decided to do for fun during your summer fling, your memories will be wilder and longer lasting if you really push it and take the experience as an opportunity to dress sexier, and act like you rule it all! Your boyfling will never forget you and you'll never forget the experience!

How to Detach Yourself

It will happen time once or twice where you will develop really strong feelings for your summer fling thing. Scream, kick and fight all you want but there will be something magical about his seductive stare that will keep you captivated and you wont be able to release yourself from his grip. You will fall *yuck* in love with him.

Shame, shame on you fir not having a fling on a summer vacation where you have to leave and it will be easy to detach yourself from him.

I will guide you through the process of letting go, provided of course that you want to. Why would you want to let go? Here is the main reason - you already have a boyfriend and now it's time for summer to be over and for you to settle down with him. You want to shake the summer fling before your real boyfriend finds out because you really like the stability of the boyfriend but you want to release your sex buddy.

Another reason you want to let go is explained below, I'll summarize by saying that if start a relationship, you will ruin the magic of your summer fling. Sex and your butterflies will be out the window and not nearly as intense so I highly suggest you oull the plug now before you hit the 3 month markl. Read below:

Here are a few ways to manage it.

1.) Keep him as a sex buddy.
Good old booty call. Leave it at that. If he knows you have a boyfriend, this will be easy to convince him to remain a booty call only. Tell him to get girlfriend and fall in love with her for you two to keep your hot passionate sex. Make promises of erotic novelties and vibrators and erotic encounters outside or whatever you want. There is something extra sensual and super kinky about having a behind-the scenes sex buddy that is your human sex toy only.

2.) Tell him your boyfriend will hurt him if he finds out.
This one is really grasping at straws but if you tell him his, he may back off. Men don;t usually mind being used a s a sex device anyway so I'm sure you wont hurt his feelings. If you happen to have a summer fling sex with a sensitive man, this one won;t work because you don't want the poor guy to live in fear! I;All cover detaching from the sensitive man at a later date 0 stay tuned!

3.) Tell him you are going away to college.
He will forget about you so quickly. You know his favorite hang outs so make sure you stay away to avoid an embarrassing encounter, but if you do run in to each other, tell him you skipped class and came back to visit your family. He's not gong to ask for proof that you are in school so any lie you make up will be fine in this case.

4.) Tell him that you suffer from SAD.
SAD is seasonal affective disorder. Tell him hat you are a total bitch during the winter and you avoid men at all costs. He won't question this one at all, tryst me. So what if he thinks you're a loon, it's not like you;re dating the guy anyway!

5.)Tell him you are not interested in a relationship.
Among all the lies and excuses, have you considered the TRUTH? It is a great option. There is no worry about being a cheater, liar or being not a nice person. Tell him straight up that you only wanted a fling. Detach yourself and him at the same time. Think about the memories and keep it at that. Masturbate to the thought of each other and leave it at that.

The problem with keeping the relationship is that this wonderful"butterfly in the belly" moment will end, once the "honeymoon" is over, you two will start the "imperfect" phase where you fight as your personalities mesh. This is the whole reason you want to avoid a relationship in the first place - right! Keep this in mind.

Avoid the honeymoon ending. Like I just said, if you end upon staying together, you will ruin your sexy memories. Its no fun to masturbate to someone after you have had a fight. Keep it sexy, fun and new forever and let the relationship live perfectly in your memory. As soon as you hit the 3 month mark, you are in a relationship and that's usually the time that things fall apart. the fighting begins and you fall out of like a little bit. keep the special moments alive, keep the sex explosive and fun and don't ruin your summer fling by entering into a relationship that will only end anyway - yeesh!

Hopefully my tips will help to ditch your summer sex toy and yo can press the reset button. Why not invent a new thing for yourself, a winter fling! The sexy snow bunny on the ski hill. Now is not too early to lean how to ski - wait - yes, it's July and there is no snow on the ground. once it snows, Ill update the ways to have a winter fling Bye for now summer lovers!

The Obvious about Suceeding with the Fling

Nothing will wreck your summer fling more then getting pregnant. Ouch! I have actually known this to happen before so I feel kinda silly writing about it, but it's true. You gotta use protection okay??

Yes it's possible to contract some kind of sexually transmitted disease, call me naive, but I don't really worry about that because after a few treatments, most can be cured. I'm not stupid and know fully well that some can't be cured, but I don't really care too much about that - I am more concerned with getting pregnant. That is a big bad thing (at this point in my life anyway). Anyways...

For the squeamish, there is no excuse not to wear protection. In case you don't know already, you can buy condoms online. They say in cosmo girl magazines that if you are not grown-up enough to buy condoms then you are not grown up enough to have sex. gee I hate that idea! I am afraid of embarrassing myself and I am in no means a teen!

I buy my condoms online and you should too. It's sometimes cheaper then buying in a store but it makes sense since they have no overhead costs like a big storefront and lots of staff. So buy your condoms online.

I have another super fun idea, to make the fling really stand out, try getting a vibrator or a shiny and colorful pretty dildo or two. Another fun thing to share is a sex toy for couple like vibrating cock ring these simple sex toys are really fun, especially because you just slip it on him, turn it on and let it go!

Every strong and powerful women strong enough to have a summer sex fling then let go with no emotional attachment is perfect to use sex toys. What do I mean by that? It's extremely unlikely that you will be too squeamish to use sex toys. In fact, I almost guarantee that if you pull out some type of kinky adult sexual toy like a the famous g-spot vibrator and say "hey baby, use this on me" that by the end of the summer, it will be HIM that is so attached to you and you will have to shake him!

It's pretty easy to turn the tables, just use your sexuality and he will be under your spell! But don't for get to use condoms!!!

After being the hottest summer sex encounter you'll ever have, you might have to shake the guy, I will follow yo with an article on how to do this because to break a guy of the temptress spell and cast with extreme sexuality, it might take some work. So go ahead and be this sexy because you can!

Why Summer Flings?

If you have ever experienced a summer fling, you know what I mean. there is something so magical, so intoxicating abut having a summer fling. Even if you have sex or not, you just need to be intimate in some way. It can range from vigorous animal sex in strange places to holding hands and begging all googly-eyed like teenagers. Having a summer fling is so rejuvenating.

It is like pressing the "refresh" button on life, it's a vacation within a vacation. All you care about is the guy. You are so lost in each other's gaze, the butterflies flicker. It is so liberating because you know that it can never be serious. There will be no "imperfect" phase because you two will be long gone by the time the arguments begin.

If you are not the promiscuous type, that does not mean that you can't have a fling. Just don't be too provocative infornt of him. Dress conservatively and do not act slutty and he will understand what type of girl you are. Hold hands and be romantic, that's fine too.

By pretending to be newly in love is so fun because whatever your goals are and whatever his goals are, there is no worry about them colliding. People's goals are different and maybe he even lives somewhere else. Nothing matters about the future because rather is no future. Keep a certain level of detachment, this is similar to being a teenager. They don't care about all the future events, they live in the now.

With a summer fling, you live in the now too. None of this matters because at the end of the season, the fling is gone. This works best if you are on vacation because of it is someone is your hometown, then there is no summer fling, it will be too tempting to create a relationship. This is no a bad thing, but it makes the whole topic of this blog pointless. This is about summer flings, not relationships!

Read on to discover the liberating power that having a sexy fiddling can do to your life! Enjoy!